Make a list of the things that are not working in your life.
Clear out resentments.
Who are the people you need to have conversations with so that you can relieve yourself of the resentments that have been brewing far too long?
What kind of physical exercise can you do at least 30 minutes per day so that you will feel good about yourself?
What are the things that you find yourself obsessing about and that interfere with you?
Yes, yes that thing, that thing that you have been talking about for a long time.
That thing that you know will transform an aspect of your life and make you feel good.
But you feel confronted by. Is it about your weight, lack of relationship, finances and career?
I had a conversation this week with someone who was complaining about her health and well-being, mostly her weight.
She said that she was fat and she was doing all kinds of pills and potions to get in shape.
She is spending money on diet drugs.
She knows she should get in the gym or work out with a trainer.
Her conversation is that she has to lose weight before she goes to the gym because she was ashamed of being seen. I have heard this before.
The idea of getting in shape before you start to get in shape.
Taking care of yourself is not just about losing weight and looking good. taking care of yourself is in everyday things as well.
What my friend was doing was not avoiding going to the gym. It was avoiding taking care of herself.
It was avoiding building her confidence and self-esteem.
Take care of yourself. Make sure that you eat healthy meals.
It is said that 80% all diseases are preventable with a change in diet by adding 30 min of exercise to your day, and a fruit and vegetable to each meal.
Make an integrity list of all the things you would like to do that you have not done.
Completing an integrity list gives you power and frees you up to think clearly which allows you to be confident.
Once you have the list set up an action plan that put things in time and space also known as time and date.
Here are some examples:
– Remove summer clothes from closets.
– Remove all clothes that you do not feel comfortable in.
– Make appointments with your various doctors for check-ups.
– Request a raise.
– Renewal of licenses etc.
– Update your closet with items that make you feel good.
– Set up an exercise plan of action.
– Remove clutter mental, emotional and physical.
– Update your mental image: Is it time to remove ideas, thoughts and reason that negatively impact your life?
These are just a few for starters.
Until next week.
Created by clinical hypnotherapist Dr Steve G. Jones, Supreme Self-Confidence is basically an e-learning program that enables you to unleash what you are great at and start to live a more vibrant life you never thought of.